What I Want

I have to admit I've been spending some time thinking about what I want to do after Peace Corps. I know I have a little over  a year remaining but I don't think it's too soon to start thinking about this stuff. I mean, this year is going to fly by and I have to plan for this sooner or later so why not at least think about it now...

I definitely want to go to nursing school, I figured that out since I've been here.
I want to live near the beach. I'm a water girl at heart and I totally picture a beach/boating lifestyle for myself.
I want to travel. I'm planning on taking a road trip from Maine to Florida shortly after I return home. I've been wanting to see the east coast for some time now and I think when I get home will the be the perfect time for this adventure.

I can't wait to see an image like this in person

The ocean is so peaceful and

I would love to walk the beach in the mornings and evenings

Pretty exciting to think about!

What It's All About

This week has been good and busy. I’ve been so busy lately and my calendar is pretty full until I come home in April. Being this busy is really making the time fly by, I can’t believe next week is already February!
I’m feeling like my old self again, which I’m so grateful for, I haven’t had any stomach issues lately and I feel like I have a new outlook on my life and what I’m doing here. I truly believe everything happens for a reason.

With that said, my time here isn’t about building a play ground or writing a manual, or painting a mural, I really don’t have to leave anything tangible behind. It’s about the relationships I’m building with the people. My friend Paul wrote a great post called the “Relationship Project” on his blog. I think his thoughts are so true about the Peace Corps as a whole and the roll of the volunteer.

This week was the first time in over a month that I went to the hospital kitchen. I was thinking about ending my time there since I mostly just clean and cut bunches of green onions. However, I ran into 3 ladies who work there on the street the other afternoon, they gave me a hug and asked when I was coming back? I told them I’d be there Tuesday. I’m glad I went, the ladies who work there are awesome and I enjoy spending my time learning from them and gaffing. Even though it’s not “real PC community development work” it’s about the relationships I’m forming with the ladies. I spent most of the morning with Mona, the baker, as we just sat and talked and made bread. So my Tuesdays are now dedicated to the Relationship Project-Hospital Kitchen.

One of the ladies asked me, “You be home next year?” which I had to stop and think about…I will be home next year! It kind of shocked me that I will be home in about a year.

This week was also my first time back at the nursery school since they left for Christmas break. It was so good seeing the bright smiles on the kid’s faces as they ran up hugging and kissing me. They said things like, “Teacher Sara we miss you” “you lef us” “where you been?” They truly melt my heart. I love my relationship with these kiddos. I read them two stories, it was so funny because they gathered so close to me that no one had any space and they kept playing with my hair and grabbing my hands. Just spending some time with these kids is enough for me to know I am doing something important here and I’ll be returning with a heart full of love for these little ones.

Chelsea and I have been busy with our friend Trusty the Turtle and the Be Safe Program.  It's a great program from the Guyana Red Cross teaching children ages 5-9 how their bodies are there own, and how sexual abuse and domestic violence are wrong. We've been working with and training teachers and nurses for this 6 week program. We are really excited about it and hope it has a successful outcome. 

This is Trusty isn't he cute?

We've also been busy turning people into food!
We've been working with a local TV station developing a health series known as "Ready or Not?" Every month we cover a different health topic and record a 30 minute segment. For the month of February we are discussing nutrition and how it's important to eat Go foods, Grow foods, and Glow foods. With the help of local Peer Educators we did a nutrition skit showing how it's bad to have too much of a certain type of food. Their skit was all about food going to a food party and then the Nutrition Police had to come in and break up the party and kick out the "bad" food. It was hilarious!

Chelsea and I made their awesome food costumes, aren't they great?!

The Nutrition Police with the "bad" food

The Cube is crashing the food party

Us with the performers 

Monday we'll be recording the educational part of the segment, telling about Go, Grow, and Glow foods and I'll be doing a food demonstration for 3 different types of meals and how to make your food a little healthier.

We are pretty excited for this project as well!!

So we are staying busy and having fun.

Thank You Jillian

It takes a certain kind of person to leave their home, their comfort and move to a developing country to help and serve others. Yes, we have similar traits of wanting to help people, to learn about another culture, to give back to our community, to gain knowledge and personal growth but some of my fellow volunteers are just so amazing and I really admire their strength and sense of self. They have so much strength, passion, determination, love, joy, happiness, and are truly optimistic about everything in life. Maybe the whole reason I’m here at this point in my life is to be surrounded and learn from the friends I’ve made while being here.

Peace Corps is not easy, yes, we have a lot of freedom when it comes to the actual work aspect but the every day stuff can be draining. I can definitely see how it can make people bitter, feel like giving up, and becoming withdrawn or depressed, as I’ve personally been struggling with some of these negative emotions. I hate that I’ve been feeling so down lately because I choose to do this and I want be happy with my decision. 

The whole reason for this post is to introduce you to my friend Jillian. She is the most bubbly, thoughtful, funny and loving person I’ve ever met and I truly mean that. She is a bright ray of sunshine and I’m so grateful to know her and have her a part of my Peace Corps experience.
She wrote something on her facebook page that really touched me and helped me change my thinking about being here.
I’ve posted it on my blog because I think it’s so true about life... 

From Jillian:
What I do, have done, and continue to work on to strengthen the joy and happiness in my life.
Here’s my advice. Take it or leave it, either way thanks for reading!!!

1. Wake up in the morning early enough to THINK about what you really want out of this day.
2. This is hard, but LET GO OF ALL EXPECTATIONS, especially for people. When you learn how to  do this you will be wonderfully surprised how amazing people and life really are. (this does not however mean lowering your own standards)
3. Really FEEL life out. Cry when you are sad, laugh when you are happy, be in the moment and don’t hold back.
4. Make MISTAKES, because only then will you really ever learn in a way that’s pertinent to your own soul.
5. Love, Love and Love more. Give, Give, and Give more.
6. Focus your life on whatever makes you happy, not anyone else, and don’t ever compare your life to others.
7. Anger for anything is only hurting yourself, Forgiveness is the only way to heal.
8. Really get to know the people in your life that matter to you, Relationships with eachother are what sustains us.
9. If you are a planner make plans, if you aren’t go with the flow, but never contemplate what you are doing, Believe you are exactly where you should be and you will get to where you want to go. View everyday as a stepping stone.
10. Get outside your comfort zone- only then will you truly grow in thought and feeling
11. Stress can build up everyday..be an advocate for your own sanity and find out what you need to manage it.
12. There are moments in life that will be sad, hurtful, confusing etc, don’t try to stop yourself from living them out.
13. Be who you are: if there is something you don’t like fix it, or not, but never pretend.
14. Don’t put too much reliance on others and things to make you happy, in the end you are the only one who will always be there for you.
15. Eat good food and drink good wine.
16. Don’t let your mind stop you from what your body is capable of.
17. Turn off the lights, the TV, the music, light a candle and take a cold shower (I’m not just saying this because it’s the only thing I have access to!) it will save resources and your soul.
18. Life is not a competition, do what you want, and don’t get ahead of yourself
19. Read
20. Kids will always put a new perspective on things. Embrace them. Listen to them. Encourage them.
21. The more you ponder life’s questions, the more confusing it seems to become. That doesn’t mean to not challenge your own thoughts of why you are here and what you are living for.


You know what makes you happy, when’s the last time you sat down and gave yourself your own brilliant advice or actually thought of happiness in that sense?

This might be really silly to read for people with many more years of life experience than I, and I know that all of this will probably seem silly to me too in 5, 10, 20 years too! But if theres anything that will always be true it’s that you are what you settle for and you love how you want to be loved and are happy because of what makes you happy in the moment. Life experience teaches you that all along the way.

I just love it!
&
I’m working on strengthening my life in all ways.

Thank you Jillian!

Being a Sick Volunteer

Yesterday I went to Georgetown for a meeting with Becky and this guy who has started up environmental clubs in the primary schools. I was really looking forward to this meeting because I really want to get on board with this project.

Tim and I went to town together and we arrived at the office around 11am, I took care of a few things and then suddenly my stomach started hurting really bad. I lied down on the couch and felt very nauseous. I said to Becky and Tim "I have to throw up" and went to the bathroom, I threw up a lot but the pain was not subsiding. I started to feel very shaking and sweaty. Luckily the nurse's office was just around the corner so I went and told the nurse I wasn't feeling well. She took me into the examining room and gave me something to drink to help settle my stomach. The pain was just radiating, my hands and feet were throbbing with that tingling sensation and I was having a hard time catching my breath. She pressed on my stomach to see where it hurt. She then moved me into another room and said she was going to start an IV and that the doctor would be back shortly.
I was crying at this point because the pain was so bad.  When she tried to do my IV the needle was too big and she punctured my vain, which caused pain and a lot of blood. The doctor came and got the IV into my hand and gave me something for the pain. She felt around on my stomach but said it felt normal; my temperate and blood pressure were also fine. She said she wanted to do a blood test and an ultrasound and that I would be staying the night in Georgetown.

I’ve been having stomach issues since around Christmas, thinking maybe I had a parasite, seeing Chelsea had gone through a similar ordeal, only my stomach issues weren’t as consistent has hers. Two weeks ago I even traveled to Georgetown to see the doctor for my stomach issues, she concluded that it was probably just stress. I don’t think its just stress anymore. I asked her to please do a stool sample so I would know for sure if it’s a parasite, she finally agreed and handed me a kit. Then I was taken to the lab to get my blood drawn. I won’t know the results for a few days. The pain had died down and I wasn’t having anymore motions, I just felt really drained.

I called a taxi to take me to the motel, checked in, and walked to the grocery store to buy some crackers, juice, a toothbrush, and tooth paste. Then I locked myself in for the night. The only good thing about the room was it’s 5 blurry TV channels. I didn’t sleep well and I just wanted to get back to the office so the nurse could give me the okay to go back to site.
But before I could get back to the comfort of my home I had to sit, crammed between 2 large people on the stifling minibus for an hour and a half. As I was sitting on the bus a wave of emotions came over me and I couldn’t help the tears welding up in my eyes. It sucks being sick and it sucks even more when you’re sick and thousands of miles away from home.

I'm just glad I got sick while at the Peace Corps office and I had the nurse and doctor right there to look after me, now I just need to know what’s wrong with me.

A Girl's Weekend

I spent the weekend with Princess and Becky for our girl’s weekend and it was a lot of fun! It was good to get out of town and spend a couple nights somewhere else.

I think the best part was spending all day Saturday in our pajamas!
We made chocolate cookies with peanut butter icing, talked about and started planning our trips, made lists of places we want to go in our lifetime, made crafts, watched Lifetime movies (it was so weird watching TV commercials from the states), ate broccoli casserole, which lasted us each 3 meals (it was so good to eat broccoli), had really good white russians, and watched Wipeout and Miss America (it's pretty awesome that Princess has TV).
Becky and I had never watched a Miss America before and we were a little unsure but Princess knows Miss Kentucky so that was exciting.

It was a very American weekend and for a moment I forgot I was in Guyana, I felt right at home.

I’m so grateful for the friends I’ve made here and I can’t wait for our next girls weekend!

Striking our Miss America pose with white russians in hand

In One Year

Right now the group before us, GUY 21 is having their Close of Service conference and it has me really excited thinking about in a year from now I'll be attending that conference, learning about how to make adjustments to life back home, resume writing, scholarships, re-adjustment money, and the list goes on.
When I first met the "older" volunteers I looked up to them so much, I loved hearing about their experiences, and they made things look so easy--like taking a minibus, which use to terrify me.
It's an amazing feeling to know how far I've come...how comfortable I feel now.
I'm very excited to meet the new group of volunteers and see them grow as they embark their own PC journey.

Really a year is nothing...I can't believe how fast the last year went and I can't believe the month of January is half way over.  In the meantime, as Chelsea says, "We just have to keep swimming"